Dating losers frustrated video dater
Wanting to knock boots is great, but if you can’t stand to talk to them when that “need to get laid” urge has faded, then there’s really nothing compelling to keep people around.
You often see this in the PUA scene – club-girls, cage dancers and the like are held up as the ultimate status symbol, and dudes are encouraged to chase them over others… When you don’t have that baseline of mutual interest and compatibility, you aren’t going to be able to hold their interest.
But when it’s happening to you an indication that you’re doing something wrong.
If you’re regularly getting the fade, the odds are good you’re having one of a number of common issues.
Do you have similar personal values and long-term goals for your life?
Are you able to respect their interests and their desire to participate in them, even if you don’t share them? Another common issue is that you’re simply not looking for the same things or aren’t in the same place in life.
One of the trickier aspects of improving your dating life is that there’s always another level to master. And that’s where new and different problems come sneaking in.